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Hellos and Goodbyes

by mike skliar

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1.
Every beginning contains its own end Some years we lose family, some years we lose friends Its all a dance that started way back who knows why So when I say hello I’m also saying goodbye I walk the streets, and say, this wasn’t here before It used to be a bakery, before that, a hardware store I’m a living breathing fossil, of that I won’t deny So when I say hello, I’m also saying goodbye I’m not gone yet, neither are you, but our time is not forever There’s a lesson in here somewhere, but I’m not that clever Every end is a beginning, it doesn’t feel that way sometimes Sometimes you get to coast, sometimes you have to climb Sooner or later our spirits they have to fly So when I say hello, I’m also saying goodbye
2.
Most Every Jewish holiday’s a story that can’t be beat ‘they tried to kill us, they failed, let’s eat Whether it was the Egyptians or maybe the Persians There’s usually a couple of different versions The story must be retold for the holiday to be complete, They tried to kill us, they failed, now let’s eat That’s not to say we haven’t had some tragedy At least six million reasons, you can plainly see My in laws were survivors their stories should be told Surviving thru forests hunger and cold But most other jewish holidays ,they end with a feast They tried to kill us, they failed, now let’s eat Passover has matzo, also charoset Get latkes for Chanukah you’ll be all set Purim has hamantaschen that three cornered cookie Rosh hashana has brisket apples and honey Yom kipper we fast, don’t sue us Wait for those cheese blintzas on Shavous Most Every Jewish holiday’s a story that can’t be beat ‘they tried to kill us, they failed, let’s eat Whether it was the Egyptians or maybe the Persians There’s usually a couple of different versions The story must be retold for the holiday to be complete, They tried to kill us, they failed, now let’s eat
3.
12 Angry Men 03:40
From 1957, in black and white. Twelve jurors start to deliberate What’s to argue about, they say? Its an open and shut case And that kid is totally guilty, right? Not so fast, says Juror 8. We have to talk this out, there’s a man’s life at stake. “Whattya talkin’? He had bought the same switchblade knife as the murder weapon, right? Oh yeah, says Juror 8? I walked over to that neighborhood and found the same knife at the first place I looked- and here is what I bought? So what, ok, throw out the knife, what about the person who heard him say ‘I’ll kill you’? That doesn’t prove anything, says Juror 8. One of the other jurors starts to argue with him- hey, I’m gonna miss the ballgame on account of commies like you! ‘Juror 8 replies’- don’t you think its worth taking the time here’? other juror says ‘you keep talking like that , I’ll kill YOU’ Exactly, says juror 8. Two people swayed, still 10 to 2 More facts- how loud is the train? Could someone have gotten to the door fast enough to see what they claimed to have seen? More jurors swayed, now 11 not guilty, 1 guilty. What about the eyewitness? From the other side of the train tracks, she saw at midnight thru the windows of the passing train? Ah, says an old man on the jury, but there are marks on her nose! Marks? From what? From wearing glasses? So what , she wears glasses? To bed, tho? Aha! Remaining juror starts to reminiscence about his kid, the one that doesn’t talk to him anymore. He takes out the kid’s picture, ..damn kid, rotten, starts to tear up the picture, stops, and realized its his issues with his kid that he’s feeling, not the defendant . not guilty, he sobs, and the picture is over. They don’t make em any better, not now, not ever.
4.
1 Strange Independence day, strangest in my life Bond between a mother and son, cut by a cancer knife For so many years I had my mom, longer then most folks get she’s lingering now at twilight, tho it has not happened yet 2 And here I am at the bedside, saying words of love Words about the here and now, not some mythical up above I never believed in an afterlife, we’ve got one shot, that’s enough Life’s a beautiful mystery, but watching the end is tough Bridge Time’s a cosmic thief, the thought you won’t be here, is beyond belief 3 Susan’s independence day, you’ll be free from all of this I’m not sure it’s a journey, but here’s a farewell kiss You know how I feel, all the laughter, all the tears As all our words, like faraway birds, ascend and disappear
5.
You say you got small town values you claim that that’s your point of view you’re preaching hatred of other people people who don’t look like you I suggest you look at your bookshelf Take down that book you like to quote See what’s written about loving the stranger You might be singing a different note Big towns and small towns got people And people are people everywhere Some bad some good, some misunderstood Its easier to destroy then to repair So take a long walk down your country road What kind of country do you desire We can love, we can hate, we can fish or cut bait Right now it’s love that’s required
6.
Tougher 02:47
Theres a crisis Of democracy Theres a tyranny Of the minority Its happening there Its happening here Hope is fading there’s rising fears Authoritarian right wing populists Keep on raising their fists But hey hey…. When the times get tough, we gotta get tougher Theres a crisis Of the climate Look anywhere, and you’ll find it Seems kind of bleak, and depressing When its mother nature With which we’re messing Storms are storming, thermometer rising Its our own future we’re jeapordizing There’s a crisis, of taking action All we can muster, is sad reaction I don’t know what the future holds I have a feeling, we got to be bold We made it out of caves and muck It’d be so silly to pick now as when we’re stuck
7.
So you want to be president You have to think about your real intent You have to absorb a little knowledge, about the electoral college And as a third party candidate, no one has won even one state a fruitless endeavor since 1860, even tho your friends might think its nifty don’t do it, don’t vote for it, don’t fall for it, and here’s the reason all you’re gonna do is throw the election to, an ex president who’s committed treason its simple math-I’m not being mean, take all the Jill Stein votes from 2016 just some of those votes would’ve given Hillary that bump we would have dodged that disaster Donald trump Ralph Nader gave us safer cars, its true But he threw the election to George W The supreme court, the Iraq war, remember those greatest hits We can’t afford to take any more of that shit So sure run for city council or local school board We can use progressive voices, but what we can’t afford Is a vanity run that will help a dictator I’d rather have any Democrat then that orange darth vader
8.
I still talk to you in my head I recall so many things you said Though you left us in the spring I recall everything In years to come my memory will fade Sooner or later it all decays Sooner or later here comes the fog But till then here’s this dialogue Like something’s missing but nothing’s gained Slowly the universe is rearranged The new normal feels so strange I think of calling you on the phone But if I dialed, I’d be all alone So I’ll just hear a whisper in the wind When I’m at places I know you’ve been And now that your apartment is sold That trail slowly starts to get cold Nothing’s forever, I hang on to Those memories that I have of you
9.
Every news cycle starts with a bad piece of news Designed to get you aggravated, not something you can use So many good things happen all over the globe But I’m a news junkie sitting in my bathrobe Every news cycle’s getting me more outraged Sometimes its better to just turn the page Im not saying you should not be well informed You need to know what is inside and outside the norm Yeah you need to vote, and even better organize But don’t be making catalogs of everybody’s lies There’s been deception and greed in every single age Sometimes its better to just turn the page The oceans are rising, and so is my blood pressure But I know about global warming, I don’t need a refresher Keep the carbon footprint low, vote for the right folks Don’t hang around with those who say ‘climate hoax’ You can do more with love then you can with rage Sometimes its better to just turn the page
10.
Here comes the heat and humidity How do we defeat this stupidity It’s a meet and greet with morbidity Here comes the heat and humidity The hottest month ever on this planet of blue Was this very one that we just lived thru Boiling oceans, advancing fires We’re dancing at our very own funeral pyre Here comes humidity here comes heat Every place on earth, its a front row seat Glaciers and ice caps will be obsolete Here comes humidity here comes the heat The hottest month ever on this planet of blue Was this very one that we just lived thru Boiling oceans, advancing fires We’re dancing at our very own funeral pyre Here comes the heat and humidity So many of us we just fail to see We’ve caused climate change with great rapidity Here comes the heat and humidity
11.
The sports and the Kardashians The width of your blue jeans Its all there to distract you The pop culture machine The sooner you realize it Sooner you’ll get clean They don’t tell you it’s a nightmare They sell it as a dream Rearranging deck chairs, while the iceberg gleams better take it slow but the captain says full steam one more episode one more crazy scheme they don’t tell you it’s a nightmare they sell it as a dream The forces are all at work Counting out the beans You think you got it made You don’t got the ways and means We’re played against each other On imaginary teams They don’t tell you it’s a nightmare They sell it as a dream
12.
Flat the five Show ‘em you’re alive Count it like the count Do it like the Duke Take a long long drag upon the joint of juke Cut the cards bird blows changes in the yard Dizzy plays it cool and hot To jitterbugging astronauts Who wear berets and touques, on the joint of juke Dot your eighths Take a taxi don’t be late Flim flam makes you fly Go transmogrify What you hear it ain’t no fluke, in the joint of juke
13.
We met in Jr High, 1972 Best friends for a while, me and you Your smile was infectious, it even cast a glow Remember that time we listened all night to the grateful dead on the radio? Went to Different universities after graduation Something happened to you there, was my speculation After one term at Brandeis, you came home I said ‘lets hang’ you said ‘I’m OK alone’ Me and the rest of the posse Kinda moved on with our lives Now and then We’d invite you out Most of the time you’d never arrive These days at least some folks know the warning signs of depression But back then I’m not sure anyone even asked the right questions When we got back in touch/ Ten years had passed You seemed a bit subdued/ Sails at half mast We were in touch here and there But on different wavelengths You gained a lot of weight/Seemed to keep the world at arms length I had a big birthday party When I turned the big Five-Oh You showed up four hours late But it was good to say hello And since that time, We had some quick facebook chats I guess we kept it light Talked about the weather this and that We remained a bit in touch Vague plans to meet again We never could work out The where and the when Last week your friend texted That you died on your kitchen floor always thought we’d hang again/ I thought there’d be more I don’t know the lesson learned / or the moral of the story Except maybe to realize Everything is transitory So go contact the people That are part of your life’s journey Before they end up On some hospital gurney We met in Jr High, 1972 Best friends for a while, me and you Your smile was infectious, it even cast a glow Remember that time we listened all night to the grateful dead on the radio?
14.
Shrug 02:25
Whats wrong with those who don’t see whats plainly seen You cry ‘both sides do it’, its that false equivalency machine One side’s not perfect but the other side are thugs You won’t vote for either, you just sit there and shrug Did you see Hitler and FDR and say ‘they’re like twins’ Hitler killed six million, but FDR drank gin Fascists kill democracy like a windshield kills a bug You just look at both sides, say ‘I don’t care’ and sit there and shrug The lesser of two evils is less evil by definition But you don’t give a shit about insurrection or sedition Addicted to bullshit facts like a junkie to his drugs You’re almost as evil, when you see evil and just shrug Bridge In this case less evil is less evil by 99 percent We don’t defeat the far right lunatics, god knows where democracy went you stubbornly insist that some third party has a chance you’re living in a fiction, living in a trance we need everyone to vote and not just pull the plug don’t just sit there with your bullshit and shrug
15.
Born to die 02:01
You’re still gone, how do I feel The whole thing continues to be surreal You’re not here, that feels weird Why are we all born to die? When news breaks, I would call Small talk, big talk, we’d talk it all Now you’re gone, I call you won’t respond Why are we all born to die? born to die.... why You’re in a better place some say I don’t believe it, it’s hearsay No evidence for what’s over that fence Why are we all born to die?

about

This album was written and recorded starting in early July 2023 and finished in October 2023. I wrote and recorded this project for several reasons- it was part of an ongoing online songwriting project ('50 songs in 90 days', which is a 'summer offshoot' of the somewhat larger "February Album Writing Month" community.
It's been somewhat of a challenging and difficult time, too, and the songwriting and being part of a creative community helped. As some already know who are reading this, I lost my mother to cancer in early July. At the end of the summer, I also learned that a good friend from high school had unexpectedly died. Those two events were kind of a strange bookend to the summer, and of course, thoughts of life, death, decay and all were on my mind. Also on my mind in this somewhat strange-for-the US time is the political situation (which is challenging almost everywhere these days), and the climate crisis, which seemed to provide not just heat but orange skies, strange air pollution, epic storms and lots more.
So at first glance, looking at the song titles, one might think that this is slightly depressing fare. I think if you listen, its alot more upbeat then you might think, and while of course there have been ups and downs, on the whole, i'm in a good place. I received tremendous support from family and friends all throughout, and of course extend my heartfelt thanks to everyone I came in contact with during this somewhat strange time in life.
There are some out-of-left field subjects addressed here, including a deep dive into the amazing late 1950's film 'Twelve Angry Men', some comic material about every Jewish holiday, and a salute to old jazz (I'm a big fan of alot of jazz, tho I don't really have the chops to play it well)
As for the recording, what you hear is me playing everything, and for the most part with only one or two instruments per track much of the time, plus vocals. A few songs have more extensive overdubs, but by most standards its a fairly bare-bones affair. That's partially by design, I think the songs are best kept simple. I hope you enjoy them. It's definitely a 'time capsule' of what was going on with me this past summer, and hopefully resonates with some folks as well.

Enjoy!- Mike

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released October 5, 2023

Mike Skliar- acoustic guitar, 12-string, resonator, and baritone guitars, bass, mandolin, harmonica, tenor banjo, lap-style dobro slide guitar, electric guitar, uke, and vocals

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